Sunday, January 25, 2026

'The epic scale of love': Thoughts before I watch Golden Globe-award winning, Oscar-nominated "Hamnet" and its portrayal of child loss

Photo by Valeria B.

Actress Jessie Buckley
describes in interviews how she tapped into becoming her character Agnes for the film, "Hamnet" which is based on the life of William Shakespeare and his family. The film adapts parts of imagination to portray Shakespeare's family and home life, but more in particular, it dives deep into exploring grief and the storyline regarding the loss of one of their children, Hamnet. 

Saturday, January 17, 2026

The CARMEN.Maquia experience through the eyes of Ballet Hispánico New York

Through its exemplary artistry, the dance company Ballet Hispánico champions and amplifies the Latin American experience. 

Through the power of dance, artistry, culture and movement, the audience is encapsulated with the joy, celebration and reverence to be found in Latinidad. 

Sunday, November 23, 2025

Forever & Always

 

"Forever & Always"

Ocean deep is the pain within my heart. 
Yet, our love will never drown. 
My love for you is vaster than the universe itself. 
Self-sacrificial love. Pure selflessness. 
You realize you have never truly lived until you have given this kind of love away. 

Sunday, October 19, 2025

Loss for words

 By Missy Enaje


Courtesy Weyuna
I already know the depths of loss, for sorrow and grief are companions at my table that is the human experience. Here, joy and hope also exist, this is the full spectrum. Yet, I find myself at a loss for words. Me, the writer. So I come to this blank page with no idea what I will type except being honest to know my limitations. 

Thursday, July 24, 2025

Imagination encounters empathy

 
We can cultivate empathy in various ways. (Photo by cottonbro studio)

By Missy Enaje

At the age of 37, I know what it's like to plan, organize and orchestrate a funeral for a loved one. Without the support of my village, I wouldn't have the ability nor the strength to still be writing. But here I stand willing to talk about how imagination can cultivate empathy in different ways. Let me explain by talking about the morning when my child's funeral were to take place. Let us imagine once again.

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Lessons on comparison

(Photo by Johannes Plenio)

By Missy Enaje

It seems these days that it is becoming increasingly easier to find opportunities for comparison. Open up any social media app and you'll find yourself possibly inundated by photos, videos, reels of pockets of perfection. 

The description I have read before is it's a collection of our highlight reelsmoments that tend to capture mainly the best part of things, filtered through edits and time stamps that allude to feelings of FOMO, where you're missing out on life by comparison. 

Wednesday, June 25, 2025

Faith over fear


A few days after her birth, our hero, Isabella, had to get under the blue lights to work on her bilirubin levels with doctors and nurses in NICU. 

 By Missy Enaje

I had to do a courageous thing today. 

Friday, June 13, 2025

What mother nature teaches us

Nature begs us to trust the process.

By Missy Enaje

I started growing a memorial garden on behalf of my daughter. My sweet friend Amy and her family bought the perfect, blue solar butterfly light to complement this journey. She even gave me a bag filled with wildflower seeds. I was so excited to tend to this project and see where it lead. 

Sunday, April 20, 2025

Half of our hearts are in heaven - an Easter love letter for all Edward's mamas mothering their angel babies

 

I would choose you, my daughter, day after day. I would do it all over again!
By Missy Enaje

“Death is defeated, the King is alive”

Because of His stripes, we are redeemed. What does that mean for us, the brokenhearted believers?

What we make of our suffering

 


The following excerpt comes from a fellow creative and grief linguist, John Onwuchekwa.

"Tears of sorrow and tears of joy both canalled into the corners of my mouth, and I realized they both tasted the same. In an instant, grief and hope, joy and sorrow intersected. I learned that grief and hope aren’t parallel streets that we travel down based on life’s circumstances.

Tuesday, February 4, 2025

Let them write their own story

My first-born daughter, Isabella, was diagnosed with a rare genetic condition called Trisomy 18, also known as Edward's Syndrome. Allowing her to write her own story has been the greatest honor of my life.

 By Missy Enaje


Where do I begin? I am releasing a book I dedicated to my daughter, Isabella. I completed the book before she was born and wrote it in honor of her. I also discussed the rare genetic condition she had called Trisomy 18, which affects the development and viability of a child. While no cure currently exists, medical interventions have proven to extend the child's life at the risk of the child's quality of life. There is no middle ground: it's one hard decision vs. another hard decision. 

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Soul Sessions: Being carried into the New Year

 


Goodbye 2024. 

The end of a year always comes packed with the idea that calls for transformation, renewal or something momentous. Well, it wasn't always like that, at least, during the times where I just really enjoyed partying in NYC. But as I get older, the latter seems to take precedence.

Monday, December 30, 2024

Poetry: The view from the fog


One morning on a walk with my dog Rocco, the fog was so dense around the neighborhood. It was startling yet mystic at the same time.

I realized that while the current view can be so unclear, unknown, unseen while we look at the view, once you get moving, once you start walking into the unknown, the fog dissipates. Things can be seen in front of you including a tree, the street and the sidewalk. But the fog doesn't allow you to see too far ahead of you, just enough for what's right in front of you. 

That's where I am. Taking one step closer into the unknown, into the fog.

Friday, December 27, 2024

Soul Sessions: Walking into the unknown as part of life's journey

(Photo by Adrianna)

Trust me, I get it. Walking into the unknown and uncertainty can be so frightening. I'm trying to reflect on that while knowing how many countless times in life we have had to walk into the mystery and just hope for the best. From the journey into college, post-graduate life, career life and relationship life. 

Things just feel different and amplified when you become a mother.

Friday, December 6, 2024

M Report Music: Robert Glasper x Andra Day for Glasper's holiday album


 Robert Glasper releases “December” live session with Andra Day. The new “In December” holiday album is out now on all platforms.

Five-time Grammy award-winning pianist and composer Robert Glasper shares a stunning live session of “December” featuring Andra Day from his acclaimed holiday album, In December—out now across all platforms.

Sunday, November 24, 2024

Sunday Soul Sessions: It's more than okay to put yourself first


 By Missy E.

It seems like the main reoccurring advice my therapist likes to stress at our sessions is creating healthy boundaries. If I think about it, creating these safe, assertive spaces as a way of self-preservation—mentally, physically and emotionally—served me well during some of the most stressful adult situations in my personal life. 

Sunday, November 10, 2024

Sunday Soul Sessions: How complete abandonment and trust can be hard, but why it's worth it

 By Missy E. 

Hope is not far away for those who seek it. Every season has a purpose. (Photo by Nathan Cowley)


If I'm a storyteller, if my gift is the written word, then I suppose here goes my reflection for Nov. 10's Sunday Soul Session on The M Report. 

The Scripture parable about the woman and two coins was the main focus today. For a quick refresher, the people in the house of worship contributed money to the treasury, some offering large sums, but it was the offering of a woman in poverty who gave her only two coins, her everything to the treasury that stood out to Jesus where he pointed out her actions to His disciples. This written reflection is what I want to emphasize:

"Our Lord desires that we should know how badly we need Him, that we should perceive our profound poverty before Him. By giving her whole livelihood, this widow puts herself in a position that necessitates unmitigated trust in God's providence. 

She is not afraid to be weak and small before God, and He delights in such childlike abandonment: our weakness attracts God because it offers Him an emptiness that He can fill ... no matter how deep the abyss of our misery, it cannot be an obstacle to God's action. Sanctity doesn't consist in this or that practice, but in a disposition of the heart which makes us little and humble in God's arms."

So the question begs to ask us, how is your heart, today? Does it need extra lovin', does it need a spark of joy, does it need healing? Does it need the freedom to speak something that's been hidden or abandoned?

Monday, January 15, 2024

Why do we give up on New Year's resolutions? 3 tips from experts

Setting realistic expectations with New Years resolutions is a good start to achieve your goals. (Photo: Polina Kovaleva)


Weeks into the new year can make one wonder, why did I even try a New Year's resolution? While the reasons to say farewell to these resolutions can vary from person to person, experts share how people can set realistic and effective resolutions to keep for the entire year. 


"We always advise making resolutions easy and achievable and starting off by making small steps. Don't jump to the big things."

 

Wednesday, January 10, 2024

How to get enough vitamin D in the winter


Vitamin D plays a large role in overall health according to medical experts. (Courtesy Pexels)

Winter isn't coming, winter is here. With that comes the concern for what some suffer from called the winter blues or seasonal depression. 

Medical experts at Baylor College of Medicine are sharing tips on how to maintain your vitamin D intake in the winter.